You do not need to change for the sake of other people. You do not need to change to make people love you. But you need to change for yourself and be proud of it.
Even the best rider in both gender has weakness, therefore you shall not expect everyone around will love and like your every ways. No matter how you give your best, you might end up with disappointment. Not everyone who agrees with you are honestly voting for your ideas and not everyone who disagrees is against your smartness. There are times that the closest people in yourlife slowly disappear and treat you cold for unknown reason. You might not feel the absence and distant until you woke up one day that no one is around. Then you will ask yourself what is wrong in you or what is wrong with them. Before it is too late open up your mind for criticism and you will find the answer to your questions.
You will never find the wrong in you if you won’t search your own self. There is nothing wrong with
So, stop saying “love me for who I am” because people who truly loves you, indeed love you for who you are. If they want you to change it is because they wish you to see the best of whoever and whatsoever you are.